Click Here to Read: 5 Dating Red Flags Pick-Me Women Tolerate But High Quality “Alpha” Women Don’t
Article recommendation written by Katerina L.
Note: In this article, “alpha” is a term used very loosely to describe an empowered woman with high standards.
Pick-me women are the “pick me, love me, choose me” Meredith Grey types that are always tolerating red flags — but worse, they shame and discourage other women from having higher standards because misery loves company. Women who are male-centered tend be dangerous to themselves and others (as they can throw other women under the bus for the attention of a man), and it is why it’s important to understand the red flags they tolerate that differ from women with high standards. The term “alpha woman” is used loosely to indicate a high-value woman who does have those standards, and is confident and bold about sticking to them. If you have PickMe tendencies, it’s time to reprogram yourself.
Red Flag #1: Coffee dates or “hike” dates.
Any low-effort date should be avoided especially in the early stages of dating, because women naturally take on higher risks of violence and danger any time they go out on a date with a stranger. For most women in modern romance, dating men is a liability that takes away from their peace and actively places them in danger — yet they are encouraged to go out of their way to meet a stranger for a cup of coffee they could easily make at home or even worse to “go for a walk” with a stranger like a dog…